Ok, shall i get a little defensive here?

Esp from annoynomous comment from a blog reader of hers.

Comments extracted from HER blog.

"......ive been following ur blog for quite some time. i admit tt ive been reading the other 2's too. i juz wan to leave my two-cents' worth and say tt the whole headscarf thing was totally uncalled for. i mean, tt coming from someone like her. not taking sides here, but mebbe they shud look at themselves first before making such remarks. besides it wasnt as if you mentioned names or specifically mentioned her/them in ur blog entry, so why do they have to get so worked up?
if u were to ask me, you were totally harmless. she just got so affected and had the
best fren to defend her. .... "

Funny ah?

If she's not referring to Emily,

How come this stranger who's been following her blog diligently noes tat the arguement was between us.

To set things straight,

It wasn't even my problem to start with.

I was just being defensive towrds my fren.

Oh well, tats me for ur info.

Was even labelled MAFIAS for doing so.

N please ok, i have never discriminate the TUDUNG u are wearing.

I was REMINDING you of something u should realise when wearing one.

It was totally uncalled for, esp when it comes from someone like me?

Yeah, u r rite!

I am never a good muslimah to begin with.

I never did my duty as required.

Unlike u.

But i have never once dissed or discriminate someone's profession.

Org cari rezeki cara halal ok,

She doesnt go thru the wrong way mind u.

N even, if she's not the one u r referring to.

Isn't it wrong of u to leave remarks like tat??


YOU quote,

".....if you demand that i reveal who were the people i was blogging about, then forget it. i am not stupid a person to complicate matters by mentioning and revealing names....."

So wat was tat all abt?

Saving ur own ass?

Or simply being ignorant and defensive?

If u brave enuff to face the truth,

Then y not?

So u would rather we accuse u of discrimating my fren?

Ok, let it be tat way then.

But u noe wat.

Watever tat u wrote before abt somebody's profession was not justified.

Ok, lets take it tat u DO NOT refer to Emily.

Tat means u r degrading the whole bunch of dance teachers in this whole wide world rite?

Hmmm... how fair is tat?

In the first place,

Y does it bother u so much when students look up to their teachers and the teachers gloat abt it??

Well, fair enuff they are just DANCE teachers to start with.

So should appreciation be given to academic teachers ONLY?

I have NOTHING against teachers.

In fact, its a noble job.

Who doesn't want their children to be successful teachers one day.

For sure, i do.

But the fact is

YOU are being ignorant and passing such remarks was a bit overboard.

I totally accept the blame if u r not referring to Emily,

But its a bunch of us who felt tat way.

Some are even your own frens who higlighted to Emily abt your blog entry.

Only YOU noe the whole truth.

Not us.

So its between u n God now.

U can deny all you want.

But at the end of the day,

Only YOU noes best, rite babe?

Excuse me,

I have enuff of catfights la ok.

I have been in this blog drama for a long long time.

I tell u,

Its realli taxing to go thru this all over again.

I wash my hands off all this for a long time.

I have decided to stay blank and just blog abt my life and frens.

Nothin else.

But only abt me.

But i have to defend my best fren.

Esp when it comes personal issues like tis.

N tis is gonna be the last time im gonna play this game with u ...

YOU quote,

".....if you thought you should at least save me face by not mentioning my name, then please don't. go ahead and mention my name. it's not like i have anything to hide. .... "

Sorry, i would rather this be between us than revealing who u r.

I dun think u need tat unnecessary attention.

All i wanna do,

Is get my message across.

N im glad i did.

Yes babe,

We may be par apart.

I may not be academically smart as you.

I may not be as pias as you.

I may not even be a mentor to younger generations like you.

I am just a pathetic secretary to start with.

I may not even be earning big bucks like you.

N pls, dun assume things tat i never mention here in my blog?

Since when did i ever mention abt u not being a worthy educator?

All i mention was abt you dissing other's profession.

Nothin else abt wat u teach or preach ok!

So when YOU quote this...

"....and who are you to say that i am not a worthy educator? have you sat through my lessons? maybe i should brag and gloat on how students loved my lessons, how my supervisors asked if they could use my ideas for their lessons, how some parents asked if i could tutor their children after schoolhours (offering to pay high tuition fees, mind you). ...."

Wat was tat for????

Being defensive yet again??

N looks who's gloating over here?

High tuition fees??

Well, syukur alhamdulillah.

Rezeki you murah... im happy for u in tat sense.

But let me remind you again.

I may lack in many things u mention.

But i have NEVER once discriminate others of their profession or
life.

I noe where i stand.I am nothin to begin with.

So i am in no position to be looking down on others.

I respect wat people do for a living.

Cos i want others to respect wat i do.

In order to gain respect,

U have to earn it.

N i have been trying to earn it all my life.

Pardon me,But i have totally lose all my respect for someone like u.

Yes, i may be guilty if i bluntly accuse u of dissing my bestfren's profession as a dance teacher.

But let me just speak up for all the dance teachers in the world, can i?

U have no rite to say tat they dun earn such recognition from their students.

Its their job,

Its their ricebowl.

N when people acknowledge their hard work.

They have every right to feel appreciated.

So pls,

Have some respect for a non academic educator.

Like u,

They are humans as well.

Who werk their ass off just to have a comfortable life like everyone else.

I am again,

Nobody to be look upon to.

But im glad,

I realise wher i stand in this life.

I hope i do get my mesage across.

Till then.

Salam'