well, i somehow feel that the 2nd saying seems to go with me at this moment. sometimes, wen we love someone, we have to let go, becoz seeing the one we love happy, could have nvr make us any happier.
well, i hope you stay strong too. though im the weakling myself, but i hope i stay strong too.
anyway, keep posting good entries. i like reading ur blog. kinda make me sit and reflect at times.
I found this while i was searching thru some sweet comments on Friendster.
" Its funny how someone can break your heart and you still love them with all the little peices."
How true is tat?
I save the comment to myself.
I believe tat we know ourselves best.
Not everyone in this world will end up spending their life which the one they hoped for.
But this is life, isn't it?
I heard 2 sayings often being mentioned to broken hearted people.
Saying No 1 :
" if you realli love that someone, fight for him/her and only gave up till the day he/she is married to someone else. when the day comes,then the truth is, you both are not meant to be.but at least you tried your best and not live in regrets. "
So wat say me?
I sumhow agree with those saying. If you realli love someone, you'll go thru everthing just to be with that particular person. Dun you think so?
Cos i honestly believe tat true love means fighting thru all ordeals.
Enuff said.
Saying No 2:
" if you realli love someone, let them go. even if it hurts you bad. cos in love, you dun expect returns. their happiness is all you wish for."
Wat say me?
I say im begining to live with this saying day by day.
I personally believe tat if you realli love tat someone, you dun hurt them anymore.
Their happiness will sumhow be wat you wish for.
If you love someone, would you wanna see them get hurt over and over again?
So i sincerely believe tat when you love someone,
Learn to let them go in search of their happy ending.
In life,
We have to accept the fact tat things will seldom turn out the way we wanted it to be.
Therefore i envy those couples who were in love for many many years and ending it with a prefect wedding.
How wonderful life would be when you wake up every morning knowing that you can spend the rest of your lives together.
Honestly,
I have no regrets.
Even though my life is not turning out the way i have always wanted it to be.
I broke many hearts along the way.
N i promised myself,
Im not gonna hurt anyone, anymore.
I have failed many times in life.
For once after so long,
I am finally coping on well once more.
I feel the loss of course.
Cos i treasure the memories i had with me all this while.
But life is all abt making sacrifices.
I seen people around me sacrificing a lot of things due to love.
I personally sacrificed a lot myself.
Till to the extend of my dignity being at stake.
But it realli doesnt matter.
As times goes by,
I hope to be a better person than before.
Love is a scary thing.
You can fall in love with someone in less than a minute.
But it will take you more than a year to forget someone.
So someone used to ask me if i believe in love at first sight.
I used to say yes.
But if you were to ask me again now,
I would say NO.
I believe tat love grows over time.
And as time goes by,
The trust will grow with it.
I was naive when i was much younger.
I took the chances without thinking of the consequences.
I face the music.
I suffer the loss.
I lost the love.
My heart was shattered into tiny little pieces n i thought i could never make it again.
But Allah loves me still.
HE showed me light.
HE blessed me with angels.
At the same time,
HE spare me with great faith.
Reason for this entry is simple.
Believe in love,
Have faith.
Cos love is beautiful in its own way.
Of course,
Love hurts.
Take the risk.
But remember,
Its not abt how much you love tat person tat matters.
Its abt how much tat person feels for you tat counts.
