Hi Nadya, i cried when i read ur entry. It touched my heart. hOW i wish it could be happen to me, but fat hope coz someone stole my ex and how can i ending up the one be nice to her. true love does exist but not when third party enter ur love life. :( - wahidah
When i read this entry, i was thinking about my ex bf of seven years who cheated on me and hw i tried being nice to him, trying to be friends with him yet he choses to chase me out of his life cause he do not want the current gf to have doubts abt him. After reading the entry i msged him out of concern as his friend just passed away and all i said was be carful whilst ridin ur bike and his reply was "PLEASE DNT MSG ME ANYMORE, WE ARE THROUGH N I DONT WAN MY PAST ANYMORE".
I salute Mr B for being such a gentleman and u are sure lucky to have such an angel in ur life :)
I was having dinner with Mr B at the very famous newton hawker centre.
We were enjoying our bbq sting ray, spicy tom yam soup and nasi goreng kampung.
Often enuff during our dinner dates,
We will chat abt everything under the sun.
Religion, friends, politics, everything!
But one thing he seldom wanna talk about,
Is abt both our past.
He said he believes in moving towards the future.
The past is history to him.
So during dinner the other nite,
As Mr B made his way to the gents,
I was left all alone at my seat,
Still enjoying bits of my dinner.
Then i saw this couple walking hand in hand and sat a few tables away from mine.
The lady was tall, slim and really pretty.
I was admiring her endlessly lah ok! Heh.
I guess she noticed and looked back at me.
I gave a smile and she instantly replied my smile showing off her pearly white!
So i was telling myself,
She's not only beautiful but she' s friendly as well!
Not many ladies would be sweet enuff to reply smiles from strangers lah oK!
N if its pure coincidence you must say,
She was using a pink N72 and a Tifanny set on her right hand.
Exactly wat i had on me months ago!
So i was pretty much in awwwwww lah..
I was like,
Wow, this girl and me got same taste lah! Heh
But hey people!
If you all were to bump into me outside,
DO SMILE OK!!!
I promise i will not be sombong and will smile back at you! Heh.
SO back to the story.
To my surprise,
The lady said somethin to the bf, got up and came towards me.
My heart was thumping real hard man!
I thought i had offended her in any way or so!
But i kept myself calm and just act cool lah.
She came, smiled and she said,
" Nadya rite? "
I nodded my head and smiled back at her, trying very hard to recall if i knew her from somehwere.
So she just held out her hand and introduced herself to me.
N almost instantly when she mentioned her name,
A clue hit my head.
I sumhow figure it was her although i have yet met her in person.
Then i suddenly recalled Mr B asking me abt my previous N72 and those Tiffany set i used to wear.
I told him it was a gift from the ex bf and he claimed tat he used to give his the exact same things as well!
So tats when everything came in place.
The name and the accesories,
Match! Heh.
So she asked me if i was alone.
I politely told her tat i was with someone and he is in the gents.
She smiled and claimed that it was nice meeting me in person.
I replied her gestures BUT STILL have not asked her how she knew abt me.
Cos i was afraid i may be wrong afterall.
She made her way back to her seat while i was impatiently waiting for Mr B to get back from his toilet trip which seem like FOREVER.
When he came back,
He sat rite next to me and asked me if dinner is enuff and if i wanted something else.
I didnt answer him.
I smiled and asked him,
" sorry to ask, but is your ex's gf name XXXXX ? "
He looked at me, shocked.
I mean, who wouldnt rite??
He asked me abt dinner and i suddenly jump to another question!
It took him a few seconds to absorb before saying,
" yes babe, why you suddenly ask?? "
Oh by the way,
Mr B calls me babe.
Not dear,
Not darling,
Not sayang,
Not even BABY of course!
He simply calls me babe.
Just like how all my gurl frens does.
So i told him to look at the direction of the lady who approached me and asked if he knew her.
And as he was looking,
She was also looking at us at the same time.
Immediately, Mr B gave her a big smile.
True enuff,
My instinct was right afterall.
Tat gorgeous babe is his ex girlfriend.
They exchanged smiles.
Even the bf of tat babe looked back and smiled at us.
Can you imagine the EXs' encounter to be that sweet??
I can't believe it myself lah ok!
Cos up to this day,
I have yet bump into any of my ex bfs while i am out with Mr B.
I dun noe how i will react if i were to bump into them, honestly.
But when i look at how calm and steady the situation was between Mr B and his ex.
I was pretty much amazed.
The only thing i knew abt Mr B and the ex,
Was tat they were together for almost 3 years and things didn't realli go well after tat.
Of course they were both hurt and all.
But NEVER ONCE,
Mr B ever mentioned anything bad abt the ex.
NEVER.
In fact,
All he ever said was abt all the good things they used to share.
But when i saw them both the other nite,
How i wish all ex-couples would behave the same way.
Then the world would be safer place to live in.
Peace lah, no war.
Wats over is over wat rite??
Mr B then looked at me and asked if im ok.
Of course i am lah!
I was even impressed!
He was still very surprised how come i could recognise her.
Cos i only saw a photo of them together, once.
Well, i was not realli certain to be honest.
But when she mentioned her name,
N when i noticed all the things she is still wearing till this very day, The first thing tat came to me was her! Heh.
But then,
How she recognised me??
I mean,
Both Mr B and myself have never published any of our photos together before!
N when i asked Mr B the same question,
He was as clueless as i am! Heh.
When im done with dinner,
He asked me if it would be fine if we both went over to the other table to bid our goodbyes.
I said ok.
So we went over,
They said their Hi's,
The men shook hands with each other,
And before we left,
The ex gf shook my hand and said,
" darling, i read your blog and i noe he's your Mr B. "
My heart almost stopped lah ok!
I mean,
I didnt expect tat to come from her.
You noe,
The story of the exs' are always the brutal ones.
Like the stares, the ignorance, the pretend not to nampak each other case.
But not this one.
She is so harmless and sweet!
N when before we left,
I actually hugged her and said thank you!
N i noe,
She will be reading this.
To you babe,
Thank you very much for being such a sweetheart!
How i wish all ex gfs are as genuinely sweet as you are!!
N as Mr B and me were walking towards the carpark,
I asked him wat he felt over the whole incident,
He said,
" Im happy to see her. She's happy and im glad she's doing well now. Syukur she found her happiness once more. No matter wat happen, she used to be part of my life and i will definitely pray for her happiness always."
I nearly cried.
I never heard a man said tat abt their ex gfs before.
He is the first.
N i wonder if any of my ex bf will ever pray for my happiness.
I guess they will all sumhow wish i'll be dead and rot in hell !! Heh Things between Mr B and the ex were rough before.
But they end it up, lost contact and hold no grudges since then.
Ya Allah,
How i wish everyone could be like them both.
Wishing each other well even though they both leads two different lives now.
From then i realise,
Wat they used to have for each other is wat you call true love. Cos when you love someone, It doesnt mean you have to end up with them.
All you want is for them to be happy.
Cos their happiness is all tat matters.
Mr B and his ex proved to me tat true love still exist.
N im sorry things between them didnt work out.
But im sure Allah have HIS reasons for doing so.
So dear Mr B,
I admire the will and the honesty in you.
Thank you for guiding me all this while.
There must be reason also why Allah made you stumble upon my blog.
For watever reason it mayb,
Im glad you did...
Cos you not only make me a better person.
You make me believe tat HATRED is a disease we should all stay away from.
For tat Mr B,
Thank you.
Salam'
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