.:: ... Nadya Camelia ... ::.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007 @ 1:22 PM

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I was unaware of whats happening here till Emily & Frosty updated me abt it.

You see,

I was home right after werk last nite.

My cramps were unbearable.

I showered, Mummy gave me painkillers and off i went to dreamland.

Believe it or not,

I was already under my comforters as early as 8pm.

I couldn't even wake up for werk this morning.

Called the boss and took the morning off today.

I was chatting with Frosty on my way to werk just now.

We concluded that my blog will never be free from 'pest'.

Why must some of you people always make a big deal over things that i wrote?

Why must some of you people always scrutinized each and every word of mine?

Why cant some of you people just leave your two cents worth to yourselves instead?

Its devastating knowing that the medium i use to express my thoughts and feelings are used for other purposes by some people out there.

I know this blog is public.

But i strongly feel that i deserve some respect as well.

Respect cos this blog is mine.

Respect cos those written are my words.

As human beings,

We respect things that belong to other people.

As human beings,

We respect other people's feelings ad opinions.

As simple as that.

There are times when i blog hop and i feel that what the blogger wrote were kinda offensive,

But at the end of the day,

I kept all that to myself,

I believe he/she must have their own reasons for writing that certain entry.

I respect them.

I click the X button.

I let it go.

As simple as that.

That is why,

I simply dun understand what pleasure it gives to you people out there who leaves hate tags on other people's blog.

Thrilling huh?

I doubt so.

So the SQ thingy was made a big hoo haa.

Come on people,

Let's be rational here,

Those stewardesses make a living out of it.

N to get to what they are now,

Honestly is not easy.

Not all of them are bimbos.

Some of them are even university graduates if you must noe.

I believe they fly for passion.

They fly to see the world.

Of course,

Given a chance,

Most girls would wanna fly just like them.

They have certain qualities that most of us, esp the office bounded ones doesnt.

They have to look good each and everytime,

Smile even if they when they are going thru a rough time,

When we can happily sit and blog while working on our desks,

These poor ladies have to slog thru hours of long flights.

They deserve a certain respect as well.

Lets not judge them by their outer looks.

Pretty or not,

Skinny or curvaceous,

We are nobody to be judging them.

Oh yes,

I did mention that i am NOT as skinny as most of them.

Syukur alhamdulillah,

I am contented with what Allah bless me with.

But it never once crossed my mind by mentioning that my NOT SKINNY frens are ugly. Heh.

Y must i say that?

Doesnt mean you are skinny means you are pretty rite?

Most of my frens are fleshy,

Just like me. *smiles*

But all of them are beautiful,

Both inside out.

At the end of the day,

Its all abt whats in your heart that matters.

Of course lah,

We women will keep whining abt our weight and waistline.

We women are famous for being self conscious wat!

I admit i often enuff blog abt me gaining weight and stuff,

But thats the truth.

I am gaining back all those pounds i lost during Ramadhan.

I am no longer the stick thin Nadya that i used to be a year back.

I am no longer a 43kg frame girl no more.

But i'm happy.

I'm happy with all i have around me for now.

So i realli dun mind you people commenting abt how i look,

Or how much weight i have gained.

But i am NOT HAPPY when you people BITCH abt my frens IN MY BLOG!

Tagging abt how fat and ugly Emily is.

Excuse me,

She dun owe you a living.

What have she done to you?

Nothing rite?

You claimed you hate her for no apparent reason.

How SHALLOW can that be?

How can YOU judged someone just by looking at their pictures?

Please,

Learn to be sensitive.

Cos if it happens to you,

I doubt you will be able to take it well.

This is MY blog.

Give me some space.

Give me some respect.

I was warned many times before abt putting up the tagboard once more.

But i need that to communicate with my frens and readers.

All i wish for is a little understanding from you people.

I have been blogging for the past 2 years,

What is happening now is nothing compared to what i ever went thru.

Its not a big deal i noe.

But please,

Dun humiliate my fren.

Dun humiliate my family.

Respect what i write and share with the public.

If there is anything offensive,

Feel free to email me.

Or maybe convey it in a nicer way in my tagboard.

Lets all be happy for one another.

Why look down on others when we are not even perfect in the first place.

I am begging to you all out there,

Please make this space a medium filled with frenship and love.

In a simpler term,

Peace No War.

I hope this is gonna be the last time i Will have to blog abt hate tagging matters.

Cos if it ever happen again,

I am considering to shut this blog down for good.

Im serious abt it.

This time,

No joke.

Salam'