.:: ... Nadya Camelia ... ::.

Monday, March 31, 2008 @ 9:07 AM

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Hi Sis Nadya,

This is something i wanna share wif u... Juz remember:-

'God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.'

Luv...

# posted by

Anonymous : 1:47 PM

Salam Nadi, the Inspiration.
I like your today's view. It goes very well with the tag right below your blog "Its not how much you feel for that person that matters…..Its how much that person feels for you that counts" which matters too. ('',)

Ryan

# posted by

Anonymous : 5:33 PM

apa dah jadi... besok lusa nak meet up for dinner or lunch?

# posted by

Anonymous : 9:08 PM

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Let's talk abt insecurity here.

Being insecure in a relationship.

Is it good?

Or it is a sign of not trusting your partner.

You see,

Mr B and myself had a good talk a few days ago.

Well, things are pretty fine now.

It hurts still,

But like the saying goes,

Let time heal all the wounds away.

So yeah,

I sumhow believe in that.

So back to business.

The word is,

INSECURE.

Hmm...

I am pretty much thankful tho,

I have never once feel insecure in a relationship before.

My frens claimed that I trust people,

Too much at times.

That is why I have lots of backstabbing issues in my life. *bluek*

Its not that I dun learnt my lesson.

But that thing been instilled in me for as long as I live!

I trust people,

Very much,

Very easily.

That is why,

I trusted my partners in every relationships.

I trust Mr B,

With all my heart.

I noe just how much he loves me,

Im pretty aware of that.

I have never once doubted him.

I believe in order to go far in a relationship,

Trust is the key word.

Its abt trusting your partner,

Despite anything and everything.

Its abt believing in your other half,

Believeing that he/she will be there for you thru good and bad.

And I am thankful,

I have never doubted my other half,

Even once.

To me,

Seeing is believing,

I dun believe in hearing rumours and remarks.

I only believe when I witness it with my own pair of sight.

That is how I handle my relationship.

Well, its all up to individuals on how they maintain theirs.

If you ask me,

I am a person who gives my partner as much freedom as he wants.

As long as he dun misuse the trust,

I am pretty much fine with things.

I give my man all the time he wants.

I encourage him to have his guys' nite out,

I encourage him to go hang out with his buddies for soccer,

I encourage him to go for drinks and dance the nite away with the boys.

All above,

Permission granted.*smiles*

I dun believe in stopping someone from doing his/her things.

I am someone who encourages my partner to pick up the phone,

Call up your ex,

Say hi and ask her how is she doing,

Meet up with her for for coffee,

Have dinner,

Catch up.

Cos I honestly feel that doesnt mean you are not in a relationship with her anymore,

You should stop caring abt her.

Rite?

Oh call me weird,

Call me insane.

But tats just me.

Im happy with my way.

Altho some may think that I may not seem to care,

But tats not true.

Cos as much as I love the man I'm with,

I believe in giving him as much time on his own as possible.

Being in relationship doesnt mean you have to lock your man in your grounds.

If he wanna turn astray despite all the trust given,

Then its his loss.

As far as Im concerned,

I have been this way for as long as I could remember.

That is just me.

I have never feel being insecured abt my man's past or anything relevant to his past love lives.

Cos tat person came in his life way before I do.

So why muz i be feeling the pinch of his past when he is now moving on well with me?

I respect the past love they both share.

I respect the time they both spent.

I dun have to noe what and where they have their happy moments,

I respect their memories.

I respect the feelings they both shared.

This inferior complex thingy have never once slipped in my mind.

Thank god for that.

So yeah,

I have my flaws,

Lots of it.

But being insecure is never part of it.

A friendly advice to all,

I think in order to move on,

You have to move well.

Not easy to please your partner,

Tell me abt it.

But sometimes,

A sacrfice is all that you need.

So trust is a huge word.

It definitely is.

Im getting on well now.

Thank you all for your well wishes and kind prayers.

And of course,

To those who have been there for me thru out my most difficult time the last week,

Thank you very much for being there.

Now i noe,

Who my true frens realli are.

Salam'