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Tuesday, September 18, 2007 @ 12:20 PM


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Thumbs Up!!! Tis is wat i called 'NADYA'... Jgn layan sangat orang yang tak BERHASIL gini. Agaknya, dorang saja2 je tak nak TUMPANG GLAMOR??? Wat 2 do? They're born LOSER!!!!
 
This is for the silent reader who left a comment on your earlier post:
Hi anonymous, I am here not really to jump on Nadya's defence but honestly I think you are just adding fuel to the fire. If you are so not helping please don't add to the cause.

Dia nak sappy ke, melodramatic ke, over emo ke, that's seriously her prerogative right. Then again in no way that gives anyone the right to go around spreading untrue rumours. And for goodness sake, she is reachable by email, at least that someone could have the decency to clarify with her before jumping to such conclusions and the horror of spreading it.

Ok you are probably a very strong willed lady, one who don't break down easily, but with all due respect, you can't expect everyone to be as such. Yes I agree that what one read here he/she may have different intrepretations but I still think it doesn't warrant the untrue rumours.

And as a silent reader I think it's best you keep your views silent too if you are not helping. And please don't end off with selamat berpuasa. What a stupid lame ending to such a lame remark.
 
Dearest Kakak,hope you brave tru this with an open heart.Like you say,you've been tru worse..And to whoever this no-name person,you ought to understand that diff pple handle situation differently.You cant expect someone to act the way you do right,thats logical!Come on,if you're a silent reader,then its better you keep all your unworthy comments silent as well.No offence.But think before you act or talk will you!
 
hey nadya izit??
i've been reading your blog since i think last month?
and i admit, i got addicted.
don't misunderstand me, i don't mean that your life is some sort of entertainment for me, thats not it.
just that, i find that i learnt alot of things just from reading your blog.
you are only 5 years older than me, and i guess some of what you've been through, i sorta understand too.
and ya, i had a past, too.
and i know that sometimes, the past tends to creep up on you unknowingly.
i had my fair share of ups and downs too.
i just wanna let u noe that i respect u even though i don't really noe u.
so stay strong k?
take care..
-ladybrinth.
 
Tsk, such people funny know. They think everybody is the same as them. Orang nak cry ke, nak melalak ke, nak ape ke orang punya pasal la. What's the big fuss seh?

Everybody reacts differently to situations. When I lost my cat, I cried macam some relative of mine died but not everybody would cry that terribly over a cat right? Our emotions are our own prerogative la, come on.

You may cry over a break-up, i may not.
I may cry over a cat, you may not.
That is how different we all are, but that doesn't mean we have to hate tag each other because we react differently, right Nadya? In fact, we love each other so much because we are different, and we help each other through our hard times, that's what fellow muslim sisters should do. Not target and pick a fight over different views and opinions.

To such anonymous commentors, favour la...Just read, and respect the author la. Your thoughts, just keep to yourself je. Kalau there's so much to say, open your own blog and rant off.

And yah to that someone also, stop it already la. You really got to stop commenting just because you think a post is refering to you. Honestly the world is bigger than that, it doesn't revolve around one person, you! I am sure Nadya has much better things to do, than to tarnish reputations of others, or spite them too.

We bloggers may seem like we have nothing better to do, but really, in real life we have so much more to offer. Be it career wise, school or even family. So don't make it seem you're the only one who has a dream to fulfil and a career to pursue. Live and let live la girl, smile and move on... :)
 

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I received such heartwarming emails regards to yesterday's entry.

But of course,

I am not spared from the vicious ones as well.

Like this particular comment i received.


" ....... I am one of your 'silent readers' But this i have to say, i always thought you're a janda. why? look at the way you write your sappy love stories - macam orang hilang laki kan!

And you even mention the fact that you were weeping so hard on the 1st day of Ramadhan last year while breaking fast, come on, it's just a break up gal...i know those who goes through greater test from Allah..and they are still going strong.

And now i know that you are just being melodramatic about your whole break up thingy...

so before you go slapping people who got the 'janda' impression about you, why not you slap yourself first?

What you write gives the readers impression about you and your life.

Anyway so be it if you're not a janda, selamat berpuasa!

P/S : next time no need to be so drama so people won't get the wrong impression ..... "

And she signed off as Annoynomous.

What else rite?

People who tend say discouraging words never will reveal themselves.
Oh well,

Let me just reply to your ' friendly comment'.

So yeah,

The way i wrote abt my break ups were over rated i assume.

I was being too dramatic you claimed.

Well,

I do admit that the turmoil i went thru was a tensed one.

It was simply too much for me to overcome.

The way i express my anxiety was thru blogging.

So if you thought i was being a drama queen,

That i cannot deny.

Maybe i was.

Maybe i was not as strong as those people you know who happen to go thru worst.

Cos i believe,

Different individuals handle their problems differently.

Some are born with a strong mind and heart.

Some are just sensitive and weak.
Some just cant be bothered with things at all.
Allah is great.

HE created everyone differently.

That is why,

I never like to compare people or things.

Its obvious that different people have different taste.

Therefore,

Different people definitely have different ways of handling their break ups.

You claimed i was being melodramatic over my break up.

Well,

Maybe i am yet again.

I was torn you noe.

I was that hurt if i need to remind you.

N if you have been my silent reader like you claimed you were,

You would have seen the drastic change in me now.

I was that aimless back then.

I can never deny that.

But life's been pretty good lately.

And all the drama i went thru back then was the very reason why i became this strong lately.

I guess i need a real bad fall to wake me up.

And i have to admit,

I am indeed a drama queen.

Oh yes,

Abt me wanting to go around slapping people who spread rumours abt me,

Well,

Dun worry,

I will not slap you for thinking im one. *smiles*

Cos i assume you just misinterpreted what i wrote.

But when you told me to slap myself for letting people misjudged me,

I dun think tats necessary.

Cos i never once blogged abt anything that have links abt me being a janda.

Yes,

I was weeping hard last year during Ramadhan becos i had flashes of my loved ones while breaking fast.

But isnt tat just being emotional?? Heh.

Orang hilang laki aje ke nangis bila buka puasa???

I didnt noe that lah ok!

Maybe you noe better than me.

Or perhaps,

Are you one?

Or should i just re-phrase it,

Were you one?

Cos mayb you handle a divorce better than i handle a break up.

That is why you thought that i over reacted huh?
I have nothing against women who had failed marriages.
I strongly believe that getting married is like taking a risk.
Its either you make it,
Or you fail.
And i will never noe whats the outcome of my marriage in time to come.
I can even fail and be a divorcee if my marrige failed rite?
Therefore,
I clearly state that marriage is indeed a risk.
All i can say is that,

Maybe your love for that man is not as strong as mine, Miss Annoynomous.

Thats the very reason why i was a wreck the last time.

Cos i let love took control of me.

Cos i love other people more than i love myself.

And that is why,

I have learnt that it is just not right to let your emotions take charge of yourself.

I belong to me.

I belong to nobody else besides myself.

So i have every right to control my life,

Not anyone else.

N if me being a drama queen is an issue to you,

You are welcome to stop reading this blog of mine anytime you want. *smiles*
On a totally different note,

N to YOU another fellow blogger,

Once again let me remind you,
The hate mail WAS NOT sent to me.
Go check our previous exchanged email and get your facts right before coming here leaving your 2 cents worth.

And also,

The one who sent that hate mail didnt signed off as you,

Im very sure abt that.

But im very sure as well,

That my entry that you claimed was referring to you,

NEver had your name written on it.

How come you always terasa one?

How come you always assume its you?

Didnt you claimed you were too busy with your studies to be involved in all this?

Did i ever come to your site and leave my not needed words to you and drag this matter?

Its over and done with as far as im concerned.

Nobody wanna play this game with you anymore.

So please alrite,

Nobody is tarnishing your name here.

And i would greatly apreciate if you would stop leaving comments unless necessary.

Since you wanted so much your comment to be seen,

I have published it for all to see.

Like you,

I dun hide behind my words.

To all my lovelies,

Thank you very much for the sms'es,emails and frenster messages.

You noe who you are rite! *waves to you all*

Dun worry,

Things like this wont kill me.

I gone thru worst, remember?

So much for me being a drama queen. Heh.

Selamat berpuasa everyone.

Salam.

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